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A widow becomes sarpanch at 80, busting ageism myths

Widowed young, Fatah Begum became a labourer to feed and educate her eight children. With a firm belief in women’s contribution to nation-building, she became a sarpanch at 80, busting myths about gender and age.

Baramulla, Jammu & Kashmir

In a region where traditional norms have often limited women’s participation in leadership roles, Fatah Begum became a sarpanch of Amargarh at 80. Here is her journey from a labourer to an woman sarpanch – in her own words. 

I was married at a very young age to a farmer. 

Our life was good, filled with love and hard work until fate dealt me a harsh blow with the untimely death of my husband. Left with eight children to care for and no source of income, I turned to labour work to make ends meet.

Over time, I managed to buy a few cows and sold milk to give my kids good education. 

Life was challenging but fulfilling until tragedy struck again and I lost my elder son.

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I channelled my grief into advocating for women’s rights and empowering other widows. 

Throughout my life, I harboured a deep interest in politics, yet I was consistently discouraged. The prevailing sentiment was that politics was not a realm for women. 

However, the abrogation of Article 370 paved the way for 33 percent of seats for women in Halqa panchayats. 

This not only challenged traditional gender roles but also paved the way for inclusive and diverse decision-making processes.

It not only empowered us but also increased women’s representation in local governance. I’m happy to say that I have inspired other women in my community to claim their rightful place in positions of power. 

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I always wanted to work for the community and with the sarpanch election I took the plunge.

During the sarpanch election, other contestants told me to contest for the panch member post, citing my age. But I knew that age should not be a barrier to leadership, and I was determined to challenge stereotypes and prove them wrong.

I firmly believed that my experience and wisdom would bring a fresh perspective to the role of sarpanch. 

My determination and refusal to be side-lined eventually led my competitors to withdraw from the race, and I emerged victorious. 

My victory not only shattered the stereotypes surrounding gender, age and leadership but also inspired other elderly individuals to participate in local governance actively.

It’s important to educate women about their rights and responsibilities in all aspects of life. Then they can break free from societal constraints and become agents of change. I want to create a society where women lead and contribute to nation-building.

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I have worked hard, overseeing the construction of roads, drains and various other projects, to improve the lives of my constituents. 

I have initiated several educational scholarships and vocational training programmes, to empower youth. I’m happy that my work has earned me respect and admiration.

My children have moved on with their own families. I live alone in a small outhouse with a single room and a small kitchen. 

Each month, I receive a modest sum of Rs 3,000 from the government, with which I manage. It’s disheartening to admit that my children don’t offer any support. But I find contentment in the simple joys of life.

My story of an woman sarpanch at the age of 80 resonates far beyond the borders of Amargrah. It serves as a reminder that age, education and gender are not barriers to making a difference.

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Reporting and photography by Masrat Nabi, a journalist based in Kashmir.